Two weeks ago a close 90 year old
relative had a major stroke. Efforts to
save her were heroic. Still, she will
never be able to take care of herself and her husband of 92 is not able to
perform that task. Hospital bills are in
the 100 thousands and growing (covered by medicare and a supplement). Soon she
will be sent home from rehab in an un-rehabilitated state. It seem that what can be done as far as rehab
is concerned coincides with how much Medicare will pay. Still, the social net is in place and home
care will be provided at taxpayer expense for the rest of her life. This
includes care for the husband with daily chores such as shopping and cooking.
Money is not the issue in this case, quality
of life is! Her husband has perhaps a
few years left to watch his wife mumble (sometimes) incoherently in her wheel
chair. She will endure having some
stranger feed her and change her diaper.
Both the husband and wife have
expressed a wish to be able to simply lay their heads down together and go to
sleep.
What
would be so wrong with that?